Some rules are fun to break, but break these rules and you can create a lot of headache for yourself. One question I have for you: Why would you want to make more work for yourself? It defeats the credo of being a stripper!
Sometimes the money is just not worth it:
1. Never have sex for money - This is a no-brainer. Exotic dancing is exactly that: exotic dancing. People want to lump-sum all adult entertainment in one category: prostitution. Sure if it involves a humanoid and you exchange money for your services it is prostitution of some sort.
The point is exotic dancing is a game of seduction. Exotic dancers are not the whip-it-out-and-you-can-stick-it-in variety of prostitute. All a patron should be able to receive is some close contact and a visual and that is it. There is no orifice available for his patronage. If he wants to play with himself he can do that at home or where ever he does that sort of thing. Not on your time.
2. Never agree to have sex for money - For one thing you don't have to resort to such desperate tactics. The other reasons is that cops don't care if you were 'just kidding' or marketing yourself or whatever. Never, never, never...ever, ever, ever...ever, agree to have sex for money. Never elude to the fact (or fiction) either. Dancers have gone to jail for saying the wrong thing. Prostitutes know this too. Never agree to stupid shit, and make sure you say no a lot without really saying no. Know what I'm saying?
Don't agree to get a guy off either. You're there to make money not get guys off. Besides once that happens the money stops. Don't be stupid.
3. Never date your customers - Exotic dancing does not involve being an escort or dating service. If you date a customer because you two become boyfriend and girlfriend that is another story. You don't need to string along customers to have them spend money on you. In fact if you don't date them they are more likely to spend more money at the clubs. There is no point in keeping customer contact by seeing them outside the club. There are other ways to market yourself and keep them coming back without you having to see them outside the club. Paid or free. Just don't do it.
4. Don't date anyone at the club - It is actually safer to date a customer that you like and are going to date for real than to date an employee at the club. Yes it can happen, but rarely would it be a success story. Do you really need the drama? How many other dancers have they banged at the club? Are they going to make things difficult for you if you get into a spat or the two of you break up? Don't you think you can do better than to date a sleazy DJ, manager or bouncer? I mean after all you are a stripper, and more than likely can and will do better.
This goes for dating other girls too. I've seen so many fights by lesbian and bi couples in the club its just sad to see them fight at work. Date someone you don't work with!
5. Don't use, buy or sell drugs at the club - Some girls use liquor to 'let loose' and be more friendly with customers which is fine if you keep it to a minimum and don't use it as a crutch. I understand that drugs, drug dealers and pretty much any type of night club all go hand in hand. Think how much more money you could have made (or kept) by staying clean. As for myself I have never been high at the club because I am there to make money. I can do whatever I want outside of the club so save it for home or wherever.
6. Don't let others pimp you out - You are more likely to be pimped out by other girls than to have an actual pimp walk into the club and offer you some extended business. The worst I have seen are girls preying on new dancers and squeezing in on their action. I've seen strippers collect $40 for dances from a customer and tell her 'friend' that she hooked her up with some dances but they are only twenties.
Be aware, you don't have to be new to fall for this. Unless you have an agreement and she makes you money because she is good at hustling dances then go for it. Girls will hustle you and not even tell you. They are the ones to look out for.
Learn how to be your own pimp or as most girls would rather call it a manager it's the same thing. You make more money for yourself when you cut out the middle man. Be you're own damn boss. You worked hard for your money (not always the case) so keep as much of it as you can!
Do you have any more laws or rules of exotic dancing that you would like to add? If I like them I will add them to the post with a link to your site. :)
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