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How to Pick Up Strippers

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Mainly this is posted because some of the tactics are very obvious. Dancers need to be on the look out for "non-customers" who are going to waste their time.

One thing that is not mentioned is that if a stripper wrote this book (yes I said stripper, this blog is not called 'Ask a Dancer') the title would be "How to Be an Annoying Strip Club Patron".

Enjoy.

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Maxim's How to Pick Up Strippers -

Becoming a Stripper or How to Be a Better Stripper

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Thinking of becoming a stripper? Three things you should know:

You Don't Need to Know How to Dance

It's true you will pick a lot of it up watching other dancers and putting your own twist on things.

Some strippers are graceful and some really sloppy but still make money. Sex appeal is what counts and if you take care of your body and mind you will be a successful stripper.

Mind you women's bodies were meant to move in strange, sexy and crazy ways so if you've always wanted to dance just jump right in.

What will help you: Running, ballet, yoga, rock climbing, Capoeira, martial arts, strength training.

Stripping IS and IS NOT Recession Proof

I've already worked through two recessions and this will be my third (someone stop me!) and what it all comes down to is how you manage your money.

On a bad day you can still make more than some people make in a week and that is no lie even in so-called times like these. I say that because I think hypothetical financial melt-downs are the best times to make money.

What you can do? Educate yourself about money! If you're the Internet user type and I bet you are, find as much information as you can about finances. It's not as hard as you think.

Places online I would recommend are Yahoo! Finance because it is written in English and there are good articles by Rich Dad dude Robert Kiyosaki, Ben Stein and David Bach. I like Suze Orman but I think she complicates things so don't go thinking you'll never live up to what she says because her financial expectations are very high for people. Not that you should settle for less with money but that is just my thoughts about her specifically.

One of the best books that saved my financial life is Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Mastering the Inner Game of Wealth. It's law of attraction meets a philosophical finance guru. It is not complicated to read at all and gives you glimpse to changing your attitude towards money and think in a wealth oriented terms.

Get it and it will teach you how think with a wealth mind and show you specifically how to manage your money. No I'm not money wealthy at the moment (I am time wealthy) but my mind now has a direction to work towards.

Which brings us to:

Have a Goal

How will becoming a stripper help you?

What do you want to achieve and how becoming a stripper will get you there that much faster?

Pay for school? Pay off debt? Are you just dirt poor? Need a car or house? Got a drug habit? Pay for treatment instead! It's way cheaper.

You're ultimate goal should be to get in and get out but that comes later.

Think with the end in mind BEFORE you start dancing or you'll end up as a career stripper like me, which isn't a bad thing mind you. Lot's of girl do it and it's not about being sucked into a lifestyle. You don't have to deal with office politics or a bunch of other crap. In most cases it makes life easier.

When I started I was just broke as a joke but becoming a stripper helped me mature in ways I'd never imagined. For me I just needed money. (Notice how I didn't say JOB - Just Over Broke does anyone really need a job?) I worked a few years and then quit, had a career, quit that and came back and have been doing it steadily for the past five years. It is what I like to do. Do I have a goal in mind? Yes. Once I reach that goal will I quit dancing? Doubtful! :)

I'm having too much fun.

To set a goal all you have to do is know what you want. Pick one thing at a time and go for it.

Don't bother thinking about how you'll get from point A to point B. It will all fall into place.

Goals are a mindset and you need a good mindset! Places to look online are:

The Blog of Author Timothy Ferris
- He works and makes money and is the closest to a stripper lifestyle that I have seen set to real life. Well my mindset any how. If you know me well you know I've experimented with all sorts of crazy crap.

Life is supposed to be fun. Make money and vacation the rest of the time.

As I say when custys ask me what I do when I'm not the club: "Anything I want."

Don't know what you want? Let Tony Robbins help you: Goal Setting with Tony Robbins

Here is a book that I turn to for inspiration. Just open it up anywhere and start reading. If you're in a money funk it will help you shift gears no matter what part of the book you read!

5 Exotic Dancing Sites to Becoming a Better Pole Dancer

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It's interesting to know that some of these exotic dancing sites have nothing to do with clubs and strippers since exotic dancing has been around for centuries. Some of this stuff is just fun to do even if your not entertaining a man or doing it for money. I guess girls will be girls!

Put a modern twist on exotic dancing by throwing in a pole and maybe this generation of exotic dancing will make history books too.

Here is a list of 5 Exotic Dancing Sites to Becoming a Better Pole Dancer:
The Art of Exotic Dancing for Everyday Women
Lot's of video tutorials for exotic dancing and staying in shape for all the ladies.
At any age you too can be sexy!

Pole Dancer Fitness Studio

Fawnia has some great videos on You Tube she is an amazing pole dancer!




Exotic Pole Dancer for You
Exotic dancing videos and demos so you can be an expert pole dancer.

Exotic Dancing Central
NYC's #1 Exotic Dancing and Pole Dancer Central

Empowerment Through Exotic Dancing
Chicagoland's first and original pole dancer school!

How to Date a Stripper

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Are you wondering how ask out a stripper? If you date a stripper it's totally different than dating girls who are not strippers.

By Daniel Hartman

If you are thinking about how to date a stripper, you may be wondering if this is a good idea or not. You may also wonder if anyone can give you some good advice on to how to approach the person whom you wish to date. In all honesty, it would be best if you were to prepare in advance for the likelihood that not only will most people from whom you request advice not have any positive input, they will probably try to convince you that you should be looking elsewhere for prospective dates!
You need to know how to date a stripper. You have already made up your mind, and you do not wish for other people's opinions to sway you from your decision. This in itself may be considered to be a point in your favor! You should then be ready to approach this person with your interest and intent.
Actually, it is more likely that you are almost ready. It will be in both your own best interests and hers as well if you are sure of your intentions. If you are thinking about a serious relationship with a stripper, you will probably end up disappointed. On the other hand, if you believe that her job automatically means that she is available to anyone and for anything, there will be nothing unique about you-- you will be no different from others that she deals with on a daily basis.
How to date a stripper is not nearly as important as why. If you have actually developed an interest in this person, and wish to get to know her better, this fact alone will set you apart from the majority. If you are willing to put some careful thought into it so that your intentions are reflected in the way you approach her, you may be pleasantly surprised by the results. You will see that how to date a stripper is really no different from dating anyone else.
A person's line of work usually does not sum up who and what the individual person is inside. This is as true with a stripper as with any other person. The ongoing problem is that a person who is in this for a living rarely encounters men who are aware of this fact. If you are aware of it, you will have a much better chance of success.
You may or may not have interests in common. You may or may not have compatible personalities. If your actual interest is to get to know this person and find these things out for yourself, being clear, upfront, and honest in your approach will be a great benefit. You could very well be the first one who has seen her as a real person in a very long time. This degree of mutual respect and honesty can very well be the only keys that you will need to reach someone who may be a very special person once she has been given the chance to show it.
"How to Effortlessly Make Your Ex-Girlfriend Want to Come Back to You" Without Begging or Using "Fake" Persuasion Tricks and "Sneaky" Manipulation Tactics and Mind Games

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Daniel_Hartman


Would You Date a Stripper?

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Would you date a stripper?

That is the question asked in the Plenty of Fish forums way back in 2005.

Check out the first couple of pages and you might be pleasantly surprised by some of the answers.

So I thought, what do people think four years later? Skip to page 25 through 33 and the answers are not surprising nor who the comments are coming from:

Would You Date a Stripper?

Comments! I must have them!

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